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Cassandra Speaks

When Women Are the Storytellers, the Human Story Changes

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What story would Eve have told about picking the apple? Why is Pandora blamed for opening the box? And what about the fate of Cassandra who was blessed with knowing the future but cursed so that no one believed her? What if women had been the storytellers?

Elizabeth Lesser believes that if women's voices had been equally heard and respected throughout history, humankind would have followed different hero myths and guiding stories—stories that value caretaking, champion compassion, and elevate communication over vengeance and violence.

Cassandra Speaks is about the stories we tell and how those stories become the culture. It's about the stories we still blindly cling to, and the ones that cling to us: the origin tales, the guiding myths, the religious parables, the literature and films and fairy tales passed down through the centuries about women and men, power and war, sex and love, and the values we live by. Stories written mostly by men with lessons and laws for all of humanity. We have outgrown so many of them, and still they endure. This book is about what happens when women are the storytellers too—when we speak from our authentic voices, when we flex our values, when we become protagonists in the tales we tell about what it means to be human.

Lesser has walked two main paths in her life—the spiritual path and the feminist one—paths that sometimes cross but sometimes feel at cross-purposes. Cassandra Speaks is her extraordinary merging of the two. The bestselling author of Broken Open and Marrow, Lesser is a beloved spiritual writer, as well as a leading feminist thinker. In this book she gives equal voice to the cool water of her meditative self and the fire of her feminist self. With her trademark gifts of both humor and insight, she offers a vision that transcends the either/or ideologies on both sides of the gender debate.

Brilliantly structured into three distinct parts, Part One explores how history is carried forward through the stories a culture tells and values, and what we can do to balance the scales. Part Two looks at women and power and expands what it means to be courageous, daring, and strong. And Part Three offers "A Toolbox for Inner Strength." Lesser argues that change in the culture starts with inner change, and that no one—woman or man—is immune to the corrupting influence of power. She provides inner tools to help us be both strong-willed and kind-hearted.

Cassandra Speaks is a beautifully balanced synthesis of storytelling, memoir, and cultural observation. Women, men and all people will find themselves in the pages of this book, and will come away strengthened, opened, and ready to work together to create a better world for all people.

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    • AudioFile Magazine
      Xe Sands is a steady, consistent voice for this feminist volume on rethinking spiritual tales across a variety of cultures. She captures the confident, assertive tone of the project overall, which encourages listeners to reconsider the masculine slant of history and historical records. From Eve to the contemporary woman, we are in safe hands as Sands navigates the academic and religious underpinnings of major narratives that silenced women. Listeners who are interested in feminist studies will find much to admire here. This volume can be listened to in the order the chapters are presented or dipped into based on the topics that appeal. Sands makes it an easy as well as informative listening experience. M.R. © AudioFile 2020, Portland, Maine
    • Publisher's Weekly

      July 6, 2020
      Omega Institute cofounder Lesser (Marrow) demonstrates how myth, religion, and history minimize women’s voices and values in this lucid and ultimately optimistic account. Criticizing traditional, male-dominated lists of great books and histories that glorify war, Lesser suggests alternative stories of women who “meet adversity with love,” such as Malala Yousafzai, Antoinette Tuff, and Tammy Duckworth. She advocates “innervism” as a corollary to feminist activism, encouraging women to focus on looking at “our blind spots, our projections, our hypocrisies,” and offers detailed meditation exercises to help women learn how to “Do No Harm and Take No Shit” and find the courage to “give clear voice to... healthy anger.” Citing her work helping 9/11 first responders to overcome their “strong and silent” conditioning and share their feelings, Lesser ties the cultural devaluing of women with the discrediting of feminine-coded values like empathy, sharing, and care, and argues that leaning into these values would improve the world for men and women alike. Emphasizing individual over community work, Lesser does not address whether it’s necessary to build spaces in which women can be heard, and her guidance on how women can tell their own stories is minimal. Still, readers will find this lucid and detailed presentation of feminist ideas motivating. Agent: Henry Dunow.

    • Kirkus

      July 15, 2020
      To escape patriarchal assumptions, women must invent a new storyline. Lesser, co-founder of the Omega Institute, an adult education and retreat center in Rhinebeck, New York, draws on her own life, research on gender, and cultural myths to explore challenges to women's power. Cassandra seems to her emblematic of women's subjugation: Cursed by Apollo after she rejected him, she would forever be disbelieved. Although her prophecies told the truth, "her words fell flat." Cassandra, like Eve, Pandora, and many other mythical and fictional women that Lesser cites, represents men's views. "So much of the sorry state of our world hangs on the excess of the so-called masculine virtues in our guiding storylines," writes the author. "So much was lost with the disparaging of anything coded feminine and the erasure of women as protagonists and heroes." Why, for example, are there no monuments to women's achievements but countless statues of male warriors? Invisible and silenced because of nature, nurture, and "the wounds of patriarchy," women, Lesser believes, share a tendency to feel self-doubt, shame, and reticence, internalizing expectations "to stay in a narrow lane: mother, caregiver, keeper of the hearth, mender of the hearts, cleaner-uppers of the mess." These qualities--nurturing, emotional intelligence, and "relational nature"--shape women leaders who are likely "to be more collaborative" and "less prone to corruption, to instinctively move to fill the empathy deficit, to seek wiser solutions to conflict." To encourage women who, like her, are "trying to excel and contribute within a system built by and for men," Lesser offers exercises designed to promote both activism and what she calls innervism: "the part of me that seeks inner change, inner healing." These include meditation, guided reflection, listing sources of inspiration, prompts to help talk to someone with differing views, and writing one's own obituary. An encouraging guide to help women redefine their lives.

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      August 1, 2020
      Lesser is cofounder of Omega Institute, a center for holistic education, and Omega's Women & Power conference series. This work spawned the question, how would the world change if women were the storytellers? She set out on a quest to examine our earliest Western myths and legends, looking at how women are represented, the values these stories promote, and how over the centuries those values have been so absorbed into our culture that they are taken as fact. From Eve taking a step towards knowledge and then being denied a hero's journey to Pandora and the twisting of her myth, women have been Othered since recorded history. That these stories and their lessons live on is memorably shown through the comparison of Ovid's Galatea to Julia Roberts' character in Pretty Woman, among other cultural updates. Lesser examines the literary canon, providing updated reading lists as well as exercises for meditation and overcoming impostor syndrome. By identifying these stories and exposing them for what they are, one hopes that the next time Cassandra speaks, she will be believed.Women in Focus: The 19th in 2020(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2020, American Library Association.)

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